More Black women deserve permission to unlearn the idea we have to carry the world alone because we always have. Maybe the strongest thing we can do is...

"You teach people how to treat you" — if you never speak up for yourself, people start to assume you'll always be available to help. She also points out many Black women grow up being passive because they're expected to respect everyone else's needs before their own. Instead of feeling guilty for setting limits, she encourages Black women to ...

"Young hoes" showed up on X (Twitter) in late 2025 and quickly became a trending phrase among young Black women. Originally intended as a jab at young Black women’s autonomy and refusal to apologize, the phrase – like many things in Black culture – has been reclaimed.